YOU CAN CONTROL WHAT HAPPENS IN YOU

As human beings we are responsible for our own lives. Our behaviour is a function of our decisions based on values, not our conditions based on feelings. We can subordinate feelings to values. We have the initiative and responsibility to make things happen. As Eleanor Roosevelt observed, “No one can hurt you without your consent.” Most persons neglect to take care of their inside but focus only on their outside, forgetting that it is futile to put personality ahead of character; to try and improve relationships with others before improving ourselves. Always take responsibility, you may not be able to control what happens to you but you can always control what happens in you.

Thank you.

Set Eli

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YOU CAN CONTROL WHAT HAPPENS IN YOU

As human beings we are responsible for our own lives. Our behaviour is a function of our decisions based on values, not our conditions based on feelings. We can subordinate feelings to values. We have the initiative and responsibility to make things happen. As Eleanor Roosevelt observed, “No one can hurt you without your consent.” Most persons neglect to take care of their inside but focus only on their outside, forgetting that it is futile to put personality ahead of character; to try and improve relationships with others before improving ourselves. Always take responsibility, you may not be able to control what happens to you but you can always control what happens in you.

Thank you.

Set Eli

THE NEED FOR CHIEF JUDGE’S THAT CAN IMPEACH GOVERNOR’S

The more Chief Judge’s who will muster the courage to set up a dispassionate panel to indicts governor’s where necessary we have, the more our governor’s will stay free from corruption and practice full integrity. As at the last time I checked there is no governor in our state that is not impeachable. They all have skeleton’s in their cupboard, that’s why they insist on appointing the Chief Judge as if he is their commissioner. A clear conscience is not always fearful. The end.

How to live the GOLDEN RULE

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We cannot live the GOLDEN RULE if we see life from the competitive paradigm. We don’t have to live each day competing with our friends, our spouse, our co-workers, and our neighbours. “Who is wining in our relationships?” is a naughty question. If both people aren’t winning, I believe both are losing.

Most result you want depends on the cooperation between you and another. It’s better to see life as a cooperative, not a competitive arena. Most people tend to think in terms of dichotomies: strong or weak, inferiority or superiority, black or white, win or lose. But that kind of thinking is fundamentally flawed. It’s based on power and position rather than on PRINCIPLE.

To live the GOLDEN RULE, we must go on the model that there is plenty for everybody, that one person’s success is not achieved at the expense or exclusion of the success of others. The believe in the third alternative: It’s not your way or my way; it’s a better way, a higher way.

 

The need for each other cannot be over emphasized, little wonder Mother Teresa mused, “You can do what I can’t do, I can do what you can’t do, and together we can do great things.” If we must compete, it should be with our old self, with the question, how do I get better than I was yesterday? If you are not getting better you are getting worse. 

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